Self Analysis

Where do you position your self?

We habitually keep talking about positivism and negativity where ever and when ever possible. We mostly see people telling us about the good and bad… Is it so that, there are some people with whole negativity and some with positivism? If no, then why do some people are known for their goodness and some for their depravity? What is it, which is making difference in people!!!?

Every being has this positivism and negativity in them; it depends on what they choose, while they are responding to any situation. It depends how they behave with people around, it depends on what they see in others, and it depends on WHERE they stand in their mannerism and their humanity… The positive mind would have high self confidence, high self esteem and great attitude, that would tell us their level of understanding towards any circumstance and that again concludes good and bad of ones character.

Lets take a reality check of ourselves to know where do we stand, what we see in others, how we respond and what is our self – esteem.

For which self honestly is very much required.

High Self-Esteem

Low Self-Esteem

Self interest and selflessness
Willing to learn
Polite and respectful
Confident
Talk about ideas
Accepts responsibilities
Discuss, guides, giver, and protects
Knows limits in behavior and enjoys decency.
Respects others and their ideas
Commitment
They always gain
Looks for the best in worst
Very understanding
They see possibilities
Soft spoken and always cheerful

They say; I must do something
Always has an agenda.
They say; I’ll do it for you.
Part of solutions
Sacrifices
Involves in productive things
Same rules for self and others
Feels happy in others happiness
Appreciates others
Sincere
Accepts people and things -as they are
Modest
Earns love and respect
Honest and self- respected
Acts on situations
Thinks before doing something
Self dependent and helpful
Marked by avoidance of extravagance or extremes
Culturally bound but also adopts the existing era.

Lack of interest and selfish
Knows it all
Arrogant and Strong headed
Confused
Talk about people
Blames the world
Argues, misguides, taker and blames on others
Enjoys vulgarity & indecent
Looks down on others
Promises
They end up in pain
Looks for the worst in best
Misunderstands easily
They see problems
Harsh spoken and smiles according to their requirement.
They say; something should be done.
Always has an excuse
They say; it wasn’t my fault.
Part of problems
Takes advantage
Involves in negative things
Rules change accordingly
Feels jealousy on others happiness
Degrades and makes fun
Hypocrite
Judges people and things- to pick faults
Showoffs
Demands for love and respect
False reputation
Reacts on situations
Thinks after doing something
Relay on others, demands for things
Immoderately desirous of acquiring wealth by any means
Culturally bound but make people act according to their wills on the name of culture and tradition.

My question is, even after getting educated, why aren’t we able draw that barriers between positivism and negativity. What is that making us enjoys that iniquity happiness by being negative? Are our spirits so pathetic that they don’t hold positivism?

Next time think twice before react…. its simple to stay with High Self-Esteem.

Enjoy grand life with positivism…

Vahini Muniganti