My Perception on Tolerance

Tolerance is bouncing back even when you are thrown against a very hard wall. A square can't bounce because it's made of straight lines, but a ball can because it’s round and usually light. This life is all there is and so we may as well aim for our goals directly, with no largeness or beauty. And the corners of the square the sudden changes of direction, can hurt people, one doesn't associate a ball with hurting, but with playing a game.

How is it possible to have tolerance in a splendid way, as a virtue rather than a necessity?

One has to Love quiet, and over and over again, make a silent journey inside oneself.........

This brings such a beauty in you that, though ugliness and problems are seen they are fairly integrated into design, they give a contrast.

Then love people, not in all a superficial way but also as who have an intricate design of experience inside. 

When you start looking into people’s eyes and see their rarity and meet your rarity too, then TOLERANCE becomes easy. It is an expression of your respect for quality, for keeping life OUTSTANDING.

Where there is no tolerance, everything becomes ordinary. It's like standing on the edge of things and sullen.

Tolerance is saying yes to the game and enjoying it...........

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Understand the State Of Mind

Until the moment you understand your state of mind, how it creates rule, you will not stop BLAMING other people or situations for your failures in your life. It is your own thoughts and feelings in a particular situation that forced you to take decisions, which has messed up your future OR say destiny. In addition, you are well aware of your real, inner personality. No one knows you better than you. Not even the GOD who created you nor your mother who bought you in this world. It is only you who knows the real YOU. You are aware that the externals are not the causes and conditioners of your life and your experiences. Carrying a thought process that others can or have spoilt your happiness, your peace of mind, OR cheated you and left you no where in your life or in your carrier and you being innocent or helpless became the victim like a football from this square to that, feels you must combat and fight on others for survival and that is the right way to deal with – All these ideas expose their destructive personality, and when you understand that thoughts are the things that creates the feelings...

Thought + Feelings = Decisions è Destiny “A man is a model of his thoughts”--- Vahini

“ For as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.”  PROVERBS 23: 7

Then, how do you understand yourself, others and situations around?

To start and develop understanding, one have to forgive and forget others mistakes and situations. No matter how big or small the situation or person is.

Most of the times in my trainings and counseling, I come across to people who says: Of course, we forgive and forget others mistakes or else it would be difficult to move on in life…. You won’t believe want kind of situations we have come across? You can even imagine…. And so on…

It is highly appreciable if they have forgive and forgot…

AND, How does one knows that they have really forgiven the person who has disturbed, by putting you in worst situations which resulted as bad experiences to you? We will do a simple Self-analysis test in my next post, to find out –

• How honest we are when we say we forgive and forget others mistakes?
• Are we true to our self?

Till then… Stay Cool!!!!! 

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