Until the moment you understand your state of mind, how it creates rule, you will not stop BLAMING other people or situations for your failures in your life. It is your own thoughts and feelings in a particular situation that forced you to take decisions, which has messed up your future OR say destiny. In addition, you are well aware of your real, inner personality. No one knows you better than you. Not even the GOD who created you nor your mother who bought you in this world. It is only you who knows the real YOU. You are aware that the externals are not the causes and conditioners of your life and your experiences. Carrying a thought process that others can or have spoilt your happiness, your peace of mind, OR cheated you and left you no where in your life or in your carrier and you being innocent or helpless became the victim like a football from this square to that, feels you must combat and fight on others for survival and that is the right way to deal with – All these ideas expose their destructive personality, and when you understand that thoughts are the things that creates the feelings...
Thought + Feelings = Decisions รจ Destiny “A man is a model of his thoughts”--- Vahini
“ For as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.” PROVERBS 23: 7
Then, how do you understand yourself, others and situations around?
To start and develop understanding, one have to forgive and forget others mistakes and situations. No matter how big or small the situation or person is.
Most of the times in my trainings and counseling, I come across to people who says: Of course, we forgive and forget others mistakes or else it would be difficult to move on in life…. You won’t believe want kind of situations we have come across? You can even imagine…. And so on…
It is highly appreciable if they have forgive and forgot…
AND, How does one knows that they have really forgiven the person who has disturbed, by putting you in worst situations which resulted as bad experiences to you? We will do a simple Self-analysis test in my next post, to find out –
- How honest we are when we say we forgive and forget others mistakes?
- Are we true to our self?
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