If we are on the river of life; its obvious to go with the flow and its likely we are going to hit a few rocks, as we don't know to control ourself in that flow. I believe, thats not being in negative way; its only the process of becoming perfect; path of learning accuracy.
Getting hit by rocks is nothing but failing in some things as we don't know what is that accuracy at that stage. And with that we get experienced, the experience that is useful in further life. Experience in both ways anticipating the problem and solution for upcoming problem. Indeed this gives a strength, and calmness to the mind.
Some body said,"Experience is not what happens to a man, it is what a man does with what happens to him."
All of us have faced some experiences or other in life, the question is, How we dealt with that situations? What experiences we gained out of it?
The success doesn't come like a piece of cake to anyone, there must be so many failures, bad experiences, sacrifices and rejections behind that Success. We know that if, someone is successful its because of good decision, and to get into a state of making good decisions one must have experiences. The experiences are results of bad judgment. One who deals with situations and learn out of their mistakes will obtain the skills of making good decisions in their life. And, as we all know... Good decisions leads to success.
I believe one must act like that rock as well as the water in the river....in our lives, to Succeed.
When it comes to understanding, mingling with people... we must be like water which takes the shape according to the shape of container, the water gets diluted with milk or with any color.... just flows forward determined to reach its destination, even when got hit by the rocks. The strength and positivity of water teaches us so many things. And also teaches us not to get dilute with negative people as the water does with oils...
The rocks teaches us to be steady calmly even when you are hit by life again and again like the waves. The size and strength of the rock is not melted nor disturbed by the waves, they just hit and go away. Same with life, the problems, tough situations, come try their hand and go away and we being rock don't get affected by these challenges. And simply enjoy the challenge and move ahead with a smile....
And as we succeed and grow bigger and bigger then start acting like a Tree...
The bigger the Tree the deeper the roots. The higher the vertical, the closer to earth, the wider the horizon... It just grows calmly...in all the ways....
Simple don'ts to be followed....
Don't try to judge people around you, don't keep high expectation from other but from yourself... No Blame, no negativity, never imposing your decisions on other, don't try to control others, never under estimate yourself and others, don't enter into others space, live and let live.
Live life... happily, by enjoying the challenges... strong like rock.... understand and move forward like water and grow like a TREE....
All the best & God bless!!!!
Vahini Muniganti
3 comments:
excellent Vahini
tarun ahuja
Wonderful thoughts !!!
Thanks so much!!!
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