SELF-CONFIDENCE

Self Confidence is knowing your way round yourself, knowing the inside outs so instinctively that you ALWAYS have strength to draw on. Somewhere inside, from the illness [mental, emotional & physical], you can find something. EVEN areas of illness [jealousy, crooked, immoral, etc] don’t shake the mind, because they are already under demolition; they’re the empty houses where your mind doesn’t even bother to enter anymore. And if you do knock into such part of you, confidence brings the power to walk gently away. Where there is no confidence, you believe you ought to stay and make a demonstration of what is bad, a celebration of the WEAK.

SELF CONFIDENCE makes you move more slowly, speak more quietly, and stop to look at whom you’re communicating with instead of flattering life by rushing heavily on. It enables you to stand happily and quietly in a gap of ignorance and let everyone wait until you are ready. Then in the quietness before a word has been said. When nerves persist in shaking your poise, self-confidence enables you to stay soft, silent and make the whole machine calm down.

Self-Confidence runs deeper, much deeper than the nerves.

Where there is a misconception of being silent, soft as incompetent, or even taken granted, there in fact the self-confidence is working gently, by cutting sharply the wed of all false connections that make you think that people are criticizing. At its strongest, it makes it possible to collapse a thought in someone’s mind before the thinker has even realized it. Self- Confidence is POWER.

Where Self-Confidence is deep, there is groundwork for real giving. Authentic means “I” am silent; no jangling nerves OR loud thoughts. Stillness…….

And in that stillness, I CAN HEAR YOU. Hear, what you said what you are trying to hide. I CAN HEAR YOU IN AND OUT.

How to GAIN Self Confidence? One way is to talk, not to others but to your self. At times in insecurity, it’s warming to talk to someone else, but it is safe to talk to your self. Because, inside there is a reserve of LOVE that WILL see you in the course of anything. After talking to your self, giving nerves a niche to quietly alarm in, then it’s a best to DO. Action together with quite love kills nerves and CREATES a reserve of COURAGE that, stored, can be drawn on later. Ultimately the love you needed can be given to someone else which is completely untouched, not only love, peace, serenity, loyalty, honesty…..can all be given with out you touch them. Experience the POWER of Self Confidence that enables you to be UNTOUCHED by all insanities.........

Vahini Muniganti

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