Hi All....
After reading precede article at least few might had carry on with virtual thought process on the questions left at the end of the topic.
Any way, our Government has certain department to follow some test in laboratory on new food products before they are launched into market, for consumers. These tests are done to see whether the food substances are health and safe to eat or are they adulterated?
Similarly, there is a test for forgiveness…
Well, If you have read the preceding part of Understand your State Of Mind, and while reading you felt at some point or other, that you can relate yourself, were you had experienced similar thing and very generously you have forgiven the people, forgot the experience and you have moved on in life.
For instance, imagine about the person who had pained you, cheated you, and broke your trust and faith. And you got to hear amazingly good news about this person and you feel gasp at hearing good news, then you must, the roots of hatred are still in your subconscious mind, creating a confusion within you.
And, suppose two years ago, you had a terrible road accident with painful wounds and fractures which you had to bear for more a month and half, where the pains were so much unbearable that you had experienced sleepless nights and some time doctors had to give you pain kills and a medicine to get you sleep.
And you are now telling that incidence in detail to your friend.
Now, your friend asks you – whether you are in the same pain now? You will give a strange look to him and you would say – I don’t feel the pain but I remember the experience.
That is the whole analysis!!! If you have forgiven someone for their mistake you will remember the experience but no longer the pain, which has hurt you.
If not, you are simply misleading yourself – you are not practicing the true art of FORGIVENESS.
And, when you can’t forgive whole-heartedly you can never forget –Remember unforgotten experiences perpetuate the bad experiences and that would result in similar experiences in future. Then, how to break this chain? Simply understand the situation are in, increase patience, appreciate your tolerance level, widen your mind of understanding others mindset and behavior, along with your heart of love and forgiveness. If you can help the person who is creating fuss, then only extend your hand OR just forgive and forget, which is now a days said as IGNORE.
By, Thinking that those bad experiences situations can affect you and your environment – you are actually creating that kind of environment again. Instead, you imagine, that you are so strong with highest level of Tolerance, and nothing can affect you, in turn your strong tolerance will effect positively on those bad environments, this will virtually kill the bad experiences and never allow them to get into reality. Don’t Believe? Try it with tolerance!!!!! IT WORKS…
I personally feel that we CAN practically deal with any kind of people or situations. It is just the matter of understanding and being honest to our self.
Remember!!!! Bad NEVER, EVER stronger than Good….
Vahini Muniganti
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